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By: Julia Luckenbill

Young children need support as they say goodbye to parents and family and start their day at child care. Use these tips to help your child transition into the classroom.

1. Ask about how your program makes children feel comfortable as they start.听Many programs have a system in place for sharing about the beginning of school and gathering information from families before the start of the school year. Ask for the name of your child鈥檚 primary caregiver and how you can share information about your family, routines, caregiving choices and culture.

2. Review the daily schedule with your child.听Tell your child what will happen next using their posted daily schedule: Pictures of the day鈥檚 routine help your child 鈥渢ell time.鈥� If your child鈥檚 classroom does not have a daily schedule posted, ask if the teacher could share one. You could even offer to make one.

3. Help your child get to know the primary caregiver first before you leave: Taking the time to introduce your child to the new caregiver and join the caregiver and your child in play will pave the way to a strong relationship between them.

4.听Establish a predictable goodbye routine: This will let your child know what will happen next, making it easier to cope with the transition. Wave from the window, watch the pet fish, play with a favorite toy, share a hug, read a book, or sing a goodbye song.

5. Give your child tools to use when missing family:听A special lovey, a photo of your family, or an item like your watch can help your child cope. If the lovey can鈥檛 be shared with other children, ask your child鈥檚 teacher if it can stay in the cubby and come out when your child is sad.

6.听Share at least a few words of your home language with your child鈥檚 teacher: Hearing that 鈥渕ama or papa will come back鈥� in your child鈥檚 home language makes a bridge between home and school, and helps your child feel understood. A word list that contains phrases that your family or your child uses for eating, diapering, sleeping and family members can help a great deal.

7.听Share your child鈥檚 favorite things to do with the teachers:听When your child is ready to play, the teacher can point out similar things in the classroom.

8.听Make homemade books:听Books that you make for your child about the daily routine including the transition from home to school can promote coping for children who need to rehearse the day鈥檚 plan to cope.

9.听Talk about feelings:听It鈥檚 ok to cry and miss a parent. It鈥檚 ok to feel angry at parents for leaving. Don鈥檛 be offended if your child is upset at you 鈥� strong feelings are normal. Don鈥檛 shame your child for feeling sad and scared; no one feels that way on purpose.

10.听Create a reunion ritual, checking in with your child鈥檚 teacher about the day:听Find out what went well and stress those successes to your child. 鈥淚 heard that you loved playing with the balls!鈥� Talk with your child about the day as you leave.

11.听Be timely:听Returning at the same time each day prevents your child from worrying if you have forgotten him or her when you are late. This makes drop off the next day easier; your child trusts you will not leave him or her at school forever.